Bachelorette vacation plans

It's driving me nuts. My two best friends from childhood are goint to be married to their boyfriends and wanna make a bachelorette week-end in another city - actually, one girl wanted to have separate parties but didn't say it out loud. Well, we discussed about several destinations without ever finding a satisfying result. It was either too expensive, no flight was found, no hotel, no breakfast, too big, too small... What makes it even more difficult is us living in three different places so we can't fly together.

Finally, we at least found a date and location. I looked up the flights, hotels and transfers but no... 4 hours were too much waiting time at the Palma airport for one girl... After one week of no communication, I told them, the only important thing for me is to spend time with them and the location doesn't matter for me but I was tired of looking up flights and hotels. Thus I suggested Amsterdam as a last choice - and surprise, they all liked it... but THEN one girl didn't want to get up early and go to the airport alone and thus resuggested Palma again because she was now willing to wait but now the other one didn't wanna go there anymore because looking at the budget and time, Amsterdam would be a lot cheaper for her. 

It's so complicated *sigh*

I suggested to go to the airport together but I'm not sure if that was the issue... Maybe she doesn't want to go on that trip anyway and she'll find another reason against whatever city...

EDIT: Amsterdam it is... ˆ.ˆ yay good things come to those who wait...